Recently I was talking to my good friend about the Twin Flame Union.
We were discussing how we both intuitively felt the need to move past the Twin Flame label, and how we felt there was something…something that this relationship was evolving into. As if there was this nudge to move into a space of what existed beyond everything we have come to know about the Twin Flame Journey.
“What’s next?” She asked me, “What could possibly exist beyond Twin Flames?”
It had me stumped as much as it did her.
I pondered and sat with the question for several days as it struck a chord in me.
I began to think to myself, as we advance into 5D consciousness, we are being challenges to release everything we thought we knew, everything we have become attached to to define our reality and ourselves.
But beyond Twin Flames? Was it even possible?
Recently while spending blissful quality time with Andy where we were in such a joyful, space of joy, intimacy, play and creativity, it came to me.
Beyond Twin Flames begins by releasing the need to attach to the label and everything that goes along with it, and just BE what we are.
Just BE the Love alongside one another.
I love how in our present reality, how labels have come to serve us. The names that we give things help us to identify what they are and where they fit into the scheme of our everyday lives. They help us navigate through our reality and create familiarity and a sense of order.
When I am in a crowd and someone calls out “Sonja!” I know I am being addressed out of the multitudes (unless I am at a Sonja Convention, of course).
Names and labels help provide definition. They’re what separates a “this” from a “that” so that we can know what to do with it.
However, I have come to find that they also create limitations and even problems when we become too attached to them.
The term Twin Flame in and of itself, especially when we read the infinite amount of information out there about this relationship, can set us up with expectations and beliefs that we buy into about how this relationship is “supposed to be”, which, I have found in my experience, can really hinder it from taking its true form, and in the most perfect way.
When we read that the Twin Flame journey is supposed to have the bubble phase, the runner/chaser phase, the separation phase, etc, we create those very things through the power of our belief.
Such thinking is limiting, and creates a story about what this Union is supposed to look like and how it is supposed to unfold that shuts us out of any other possibilities that we can create for ourselves.
I have heard so many instances of one Twin pushing the term on another, and, depending on where the other party is, and what they believe, opening up the door for conflict as one party attempts to push a concept on another that they don’t necessarily believe (and don’t need to to be your Divine Counterpart or for you to Love without condition).
I have also seen and experienced needless confusion and anxiety over “this being my Twin Flame or not”, comparing the dynamics of the relationship with the checklist of signs and symptoms of this Union that you see all over You Tube and the internet, as if any relationship between two Divine Beings can ever be put into a box.
Our souls are much more creative and expansive than that.
I am not chastising you if you need the term Twin Flame, nor am I discouraging you from using it. In fact, I still intend to use it, as it creates a point of reference, though I am playfully loving the name Sacred Sidekick to describe what I share with Andy, which is inner child wonder-full.
What I am saying is that, as many of us are moving into full Union and harmonization, that we are being called to release the old story around what this relationship is and is not, and simply be what we have been drawn together to be in the world.
Which is pure Unconditional Love alongside and for one another,
That does not need a name. Just two hearts surrendered to Love.
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